Con Artist or Real? Day 2

Dear Ayomide, 

Tell me when you get to California and maybe we could get to know each other. 

Phil

 

 

Jun 16 at 11:31 PM

Hello,
 
     Thanks for the mail its nice to hear that you are interested in getting to know more about me,I am glad we met each other on the dating site which mean its time for me to sit and write to you everyday then see what future will bring for us but with the previous mail you sent to me I can see we will have a bright future but only time will tell so lets keep sending mails back and forth.

I have been scared to date for the past 4 years because of what my ex-husband did to me but when gave it a deep thought about life then I found out all men can never be the same, that is the reason why I registered on the site and the day we met you was my first day on the site so am glad I was able to meet someone I think we can be good match but we need to take our time to get to know each other better.

I am kind of woman that like man that date only one woman if you can do that with me then we will have more time to concentrate on each other but let me know if you have anyone you are dating presently or if there is anyone you are seeing please tell me because I want this relationship we are trying to build with each other to be open and also be honest with each other please am pleading cause I don't want to get hurt anymore.


I am the only child of my parent I have lost my dad to Cancer, all I have got now is my God,  so tell me this, I will be glad if you can give me honest answers, for how long have you been on the dating site? have you ever meet or chat with anyone outside your country? Are you interested in a long distance relationship? Like I told you in my previous e-mail I am in in Nigeria west Africa right now, although I am willing to relocate when I find the right man for me. I am new to this online dating stuff and I have heard that many men and women play games please I want to tell you that am tired of getting hurt and I will be glad if you can, be honest with me, If you have someone else you are dating presently kindly tell me please, hope to hear from you soon.

Ayomide

 

Con Artist or Real? Day 1

I have a good friend who is now being emailed by a girl who comes all the way from Nigeria or is her picture just being used to con my friend.  I will narrate with letters and pictures:



Hey Ayomisewa, 

I saw your profile at Christian Mingle,  and was wondering if you would like to get some coffee sometime? 

Phil

Hello Phil, how is your day going? I want you to know that you have spoken well and you truly sound like a man that know what he want in life.I live in Nigeria, My name is Ewa and which means beauty so.

Jun 16 at 2:49 PM

Hello Phil, how is your day going? I want you to know that you have spoken well and you truly sound like a man that know what he want in life.I live in Nigeria, My name is Ewa and which means beauty  so mom said she like the name so much. First of all I made a mistake while filling my profile on the dating site, I am 33 years of age and will be 34 this year, I am not working for now I will tell you the reason after sending you this message,I was raised in a Christian home with good morale's and values.  I'm family oriented and believe in stepping up to be the woman for my family that I need to be.  I treat others the way I want to be treated.  I'm very big on respect and think respect is earned and not just given.  I'm a firm believer in God and think life should be structured by putting him first, then family, then church.  I'm a hard worker and everything I have I've worked for.  I don't claim to be perfect and have make a lot of mistakes in my life.  The good thing is I've learned from my mistakes and it has made me a better person.  I finally realized I can't do anything without the help of my creator.  Since I've re-dedicated my life back to him I have received blessing after blessing.  I'm a daughter, sister, and friend.  I would do without just so someone else could have.  I've been walked on, cheated on, stepped on, slapped in the face, and called every name in the book, but I'm like a Timex takes the licking and keeps on ticking. I look for and desire that special someone that will complete me.  Someone that has the same beliefs I do.  Someone that will show me how much he appreciates the things I do for him.  Someone that will treat me the way I'm suppose to be treated.  Someone that is willing to give instead of wanting to receiving all the time.  Someone that's down to earth, loves to have fun, and don't mind doing anything as long as we are together.  Someone that don't think he's better than everybody else.  Someone that is not only handsome on the outside, but handsome on the inside as well, because outer beauty is only skin deep.  Someone that will hold true to our relationship no matter what life throws at us and understands that all we need out of life is each other.  Everything else doesn't mean nothing.  Yes, it's good to have nice things and go to nice places, but those things will never compare to the love that you have for one another. I'm a type of person that will do whatever it takes to make you happy if I'm getting back what I put in.  I will be the shoulder you need to cry on.  I will be there when you've had a bad day and just need a hug and want to hear the words, everything will be alright.  With every ounce of breathe in my body I will make sure my family is protected, provided for, supported, and loved unconditionally. I want a man that truthful and honest man that really knows what he want in life and I think that is the kind of man you are that is why I will want to keep this conversation going, I am a one man lady and I also require that from my man he should be a one woman man too, the qualities I  seek from a man are... Honesty, Open mind, Trust, understanding and lastly a God fearing man. what I want is a long term relationship hopefully that might lead to marriage someday, What Interest me most is when my man tells me how much he love and care about me, also how he miss me when I am not around, I don't have any child for now I am single and live together with my mom here in Nigeria,  cause she as always been there to guide me but now I have to face it alone. For fun I like Dancing, writing poetry, swimming, going to cinema, museum, and most time chilling at the park. I like to cuddle up with my lover I love it when he put his arms around me and whisper into my hear to tell me how much he care I don't feel shy to show love to my husband anywhere, I like cleaning up the house I don't like dirty environment, please if you are a dirty person that mess up the house you better stop it......hahahahaha. I treat my man with 100% respect and satisfaction so he won't have any excuse on why he have to cheat on me. I want a man cause I am tired of this loneliness and I want someone I can share my feelings with that we both can be together through thick and thin. I want you to know that my heart as been broken in the past, I was badly hurt by a man I gave my whole life to but I caught him cheating on me and I said bye bye to him, please let me know if you are not ready for this cause I do not want anyone to cheat on me or hurt my feelings for the second time.  This is my second time of coming to the U.S I was here few years back that was when I had the opportunity to meet with my dad before his death, Actually my father is a Mexican but he spent most of his life there in the united states, he met my mother when she traveled to Mexico but they broke up and my mother came back to Nigeria and that is why I never spent much time with him till we met three years back, He work for Chevron company,  I don't want you to feel bored I think I have said enough if there is anything you will like to know that I have not mentioned please feel free to ask me and will surely provide you an answer, have a nice day and I hope to hear from you soon.